When it comes to dressing for success in the bedroom, all you have to remember is the 5 C’s:

Confidence

In a study done by GQ Magazine in 2011, men revealed that above weight, hair, make-up and body shape, the thing they found sexiest about a woman is confidence. Pictures of two women were compared in which the more physically attractive of the two was rated higher, but when the men participating in the study met the women, 9 out of every 10 men changed answers to give the woman with the lower rating a higher score. Why? The more attractive woman was instructed to be reserved and inverted while meeting the participants, while the other woman was instructed to be flirtatious and confident. When you’re choosing your lingerie, the first thing you should look for is something that makes you feel confident. If you’re insecure about your stomach, this could mean a baby-doll that has high sex appeal, but covers your problem area. If you’re proud of your breasts, wear something that accentuates that feature. Something that makes you confident is something that will make you sexy!

Crotchless

In that same study, less than 5% of men said they think crotchless panties, stockings, and other outfits are sexy. If you find something in the store that’s crotchless, put it down and keep shopping.

Complimentary

We can all watch the Victoria’s Secret runway show and get great ideas from the women on stage, but what are the chances that little number is going to look the same on us as it does on Heidi? Find something that compliments your skin tone, your body shape, and your height in a classy way.

Curves

Women look at their curves and often think ‘fat’. Men look at a woman’s curves and think ‘fabulous’! It’s been proven since the dawn of time that men are attracted to curvier women, so embrace yours! Instead of trying to get into a bustier that’s so tight it looks like it should be dancing around a pole just so your love handles are smoothed down, wear something that subtly forms to your body and shows off your curves!

Comfort

We all know there are outfits that would make men drool no matter who wears then, but how much are you going to enjoy being in that latex nurse outfit for an entire night? When you’re shopping for something to wear in the bedroom, always try it on first. Can you wear it and feel sexy, or are you going to feel silly? Can you comfortably move in it, or is the underwire already uncomfortable? You’re not just going to be wearing that number alone in a dressing room; you’re going to be fully exposed in it to someone else. Make sure you’re going to be comfortable, both mentally and physically.

When you’re finding something to wear in the bedroom, keep the 5 C’s in mind and you’ll end up with results to lust for.

To get more great advice on sex, dating, and everything else visit Jesse at www.sexsearchcom.com/Free-Sex!

By Jesse Woods from SexSearch.com

Vintage

Vintage tees are all the rage right now. This type of T-shirt provides a comfortable style without making you look sloppy. Look for a T-shirt made of 100 percent cotton for a soft feel and great fit. Green, blue and other earth tones look great when coupled with a vintage tee. Look for a retro print as well. Nothing will throw off your look quicker than a vintage inspired tee with a brand, new shiny screen print. The perfect vintage tee will combine material and design seamlessly.

Ringer

Ringer tees are making a comeback. They look sporty and casual; perfect for the beach. A ringer tee, if you don’t know, is a T-shirt that has a body of one colour and neckline and sleeve edges of a different colour. Look for a T-shirt that has a body in one colour and “rings” in a shade of the body colour, for instance, a green body with a dark green neckline and sleeve edges. These colour choices lend a modern look to an old favourite.

Organic

An organic printed tee is made from 100 percent organic cotton, washed and printed with eco-friendly dyes, pre-shrunk and are certified sweatshop free. There’s no better choice if you’ve adopted a green lifestyle. And, really, what better shirt to wear to the beach than one made with natural resources? Most organic tees are made with ring-spun cotton, giving them the softest feel possible.

Long-Sleeve

Most people don’t consider long-sleeve T-shirts for a day on the beach but consider this: if your skin is covered it can’t get burned! Long-sleeve tees are great for layering; if it’s too warm during the day, you’ll be able to wear it in the evening when the party starts to wind down.

Printed Polo

Printed polo shirts have become increasing stylish as rugby and soccer become more popular in the US. Printed polo shirts with number on the sleeve or back and team logos on the chest look stylish anywhere but particularly on the beach. A printed polo paired with a pair of plaid shorts looks especially fashionable. Choose a shirt that pulls one of the colours from your shorts and you’ll look coordinated and classy without looking over-dressed.

Hooded Tee

Hooded tees look great on girls and give you a way to cover your head without having to resort to a boyish baseball cap. Pick a hooded tee that is form fitting rather than loose so you don’t look sloppy. A great beach themed print will make your summer hoodie look fantastic with a pair of cute surf shorts and strappy sandals.

No matter which type of T-shirt you choose, be sure to look for one that sets you apart from the crowd. Look for a print that virtually screams your name! Printed tees are a great way to let the world know where you stand on issues, which team you follow or even which businesses you support. Have fun with it! Whether you stick with a beach theme or go your own way, T-shirts are a fabulous avenue for expression.

Author’s Bio

Sylvia Patterson is a marketing consultant for small businesses and she suggests that printed t shirts are one of the most cost effective ways to get your name out in front of the general public.

Keep in mind that the more money you save, the more can be given to the things that are the most important to you: your dress, your honeymoon or even your caterer. Are you looking for something that can be done on a budget, and done well? Look to your centerpieces! Here are some great ideas:

1. Upcycle your Bouquets

Here’s a fantastic idea that’s becoming a new rage: use your bridesmaid’s bouquets as centerpieces. Chances are that you won’t have as many bridesmaids as you have tables but you can use them on the food table or even on every other table. If you have a large bridal party, consider alternating centerpieces: one table has a bouquet and one has a candle arrangement in coordinating colours. They can place them “in water” on the tables and then take them home after the party as keepsakes.

2. Keep It Small

If your heart is set on centerpieces of beautiful flowers put together by a professional, shop smart and get the best price available. Buying flowers that are in season and local may require you to be a bit flexible, but will net you a better price. In addition, keeping your centerpieces less than 12 inches in height will lower the price. Simple arrangements will be cheaper than those that are more extravagant so keep that in mind.

3. Stones or Shells

I love this look! A simple tall, glass candleholder, surrounded by smaller glass tea light holders are the centerpiece, and the grouping is surrounded by river stones or combined with sea shells. It’s a simple, natural look that lends a Zen feeling to the table. The centerpiece is perfect for a garden wedding and will have your friends copying your great idea for their own weddings.

4. Cupcakes

Order a smaller wedding cake and use a cupcake tree for the centerpiece; it is a cute, fun idea that can look as simple or exquisite as you desire. Not only does this make a fantastic centerpiece but will give your guest ready access to their dessert at the same time. Consider using this centerpiece idea in combination with a smaller cake; you’ll save twofold.

5. Oil Lamps

You can buy oil lamps or lanterns at Wal-Mart for around $5 apiece. A bottle of paraffin oil will easy fill 3-5 lamps and costs less than a fiver. An oil lamp lit on each table makes a stunning, elegant vision. You may think it too plain, but wait until the lights are turned down; trust me, it will look amazing! If you want to get a bit more fancy with the idea, surround the lamps with loose flowers, flower petals or even pretty leaves that you’ve collected. The idea lends itself to hundreds of unique looks!

Your wedding doesn’t have to be extravagant to be the talk of the season. Save your budget for the things that matter most, like your dress, and use your rewards card the large expenses. Using your travel points for your honeymoon will save you even more money. Just remember, there are creative ways to fund your wedding, and you don’t have to go broke in the process!

Author’s Bio

Angie Trace is a money consultant and content contributor for a financial comparison website offering detailed comparisons for the top providers, and featuring bad credit builder credit cards for those who’ve experienced an unfortunate hit to their credit score.

1. Utilize Rewards

Most grocery stores are jumping on the loyalty card bandwagon. Sign up for a rewards card with your local grocery store, if you don’t have one already, and start taking advantage of the savings. Scan your local flyer when it comes in the mail and construct your shopping list. Often times, you can save money on organic produce by using these handy little cards.

2. Farmer’s Market

Do a bit of online research and see if you have any local farmers’ markets. Not only do these stores stock organic fruits and vegetables for better prices, but they also support the local economy. Farmer’s markets can sell produce more cheaply because they buy from local farmers, eliminating the middle-man. For even better deals, ask the manager about any seconds, or misshapen foods, or about buying in bulk.

3. Pick Your Own

Many cities have orchards and farms where guests can pick their own produce. Check to be sure that these orchards utilize organic farming methods and then head out! Take the kids along and spend a day in the fresh air, picking your own produce. You may be required to pick several bushels but take heart: you can freeze what you won’t use or try your hand at canning.

4. Join a Co-op

A co-op is a business owned by its members that provides organic produce at a discount price. You may net better discounts if you volunteer to work on the farm or in the orchard a day or two a month. You may need to pay dues but the savings you receive will far outweigh any monies you put in. For a list of co-ops near you, check out sites like Local Harvest and Cooperative Grocer. If there are none nearby, start your own!

5. Buy in Bulk

Like with every other product, buying organic groceries in bulk can save you big money. Instead of buying organic beans and grains by the box, buy them by the pound. The larger containers of these items are a far better deal. Do, however, be sure to add up the cost. Compare what you will be spending on the bulk container to an equal amount of smaller packages.

6. Buy In-Season

Each bit of produce has its own season. When you buy in-season, you will save substantially. If you can, buy large amounts of in-season fruits and vegetables and freeze what you won’t eat immediately. Foods like corn, green beans and even strawberries last wonderfully for months in the freezer. And what better way to have a taste of summer in the dead of winter than with a beautiful strawberry shortcake made with organic berries?

7. Grow Your Own

If you want to save the most money on your organic groceries, consider growing your own. Research organic gardening and try your hand at growing your own vegetables this year. By planting seeds, you’ll often be paying pennies on the dollar for the same amount that you would buy in the store.

Going organic doesn’t mean you have to break the budget. With smart shopping skills and a bit of ingenuity, you can buy organic without spending a ton of cash.

Author’s Bio

Andy Trace is a money consultant and content contributor for www.FinanceChoices.co.uk a site offering detailed comparisons for the top providers, and side by side features like fees for balance transfers.

The role of window treatments is powerful in any room of your home. The perfect window treatment creates interest without demanding too much attention while the wrong window treatment causes design issues ranging from minor problems to major dysfunction.

When you want a new look in your great room, changing out accessories and window treatments can transform a tired boring room into a warm and welcoming space.

Before you make any firm decisions, remove any fabric or hardware from the windows in the room. Bare windows will help you create a mental image of possible outcomes.

Considering green trends and an interest in sustainable design, some of the most popular window treatments involve natural organic products. Bamboo and other wood grains are used in new designs for woven shades. Texture accents, a range of colour variations in the wood and the tightness of the weave all influence the amount of diffused light flowing into the room.

Of course, using wood in window treatments isn’t a ground-breaking idea. Wood blinds have been popular for a few decades. The newest ideas transfer wood into popular styles like Roman shades. Choosing a colour, texture and style for a window shade can add enough interest to create a finished look when the shade is lowered. Raising the shade allows natural light without hiding part of the window with unnecessary fabric.

If a window shade design is too simple, you can opt for more traditional curtain panels. Keep the design fresh by choosing a lightweight fabric in a bright colour. The impact of stylish new curtains, curtain rods and hardware will be lost if you opt for a drab heavy colour.

Creating window treatments by repurposing other items continues to be a design trend. For instance, table runners, head scarves, or long pieces of sleek satin or a billowing chiffon, tied off at the top corner of a window can make an impressive window treatment. Antique lace or other unique materials can create a more intimate environment.

When it comes to updating window treatments in your home, you are only limited by your imagination. Whether you hire a designer to handle every detail or you create an original design, changing window treatments can make a personal style statement and update a room at the same time.

Author’s Bio

Rigette Saycon is a regular writer for NC Design Online, North Carolina’s premiere resource guide for interior design and home décor.

More Colours for 2012

Colour has always taken the centre stage when it comes to unveiling trends and 2012 will be no exception. Elegance is another aspect that always finds its place in the pinnacles of fashionable designs. Gone are the days when brides only confined themselves to white accessories to match their attires. Nonetheless, even though white still remains popular, pink and blue colours are also quickly stamping their mark as popular colours. Expect to see more brides walking down the aisle in blue or pink shoes donned with crystal embellishments to bring out that extra kick of elegance.

The Jewellery to Choose

Jewellery will also be one of those accessories that will stand out in 2012. Wide bracelets, glittering diamond earrings and stylish necklaces will take their place as the ultimate compliment to the bride’s dress. Most women consider jewellery to be a symbol of commitment and it has to stand out. Most jewels in 2012 such as rings, earrings and bracelets will likely be simple and classic, but nonetheless, the elegance factor will still stand out.

Trends for Crowns and Tiaras

Crowns and tiaras are also a popular wedding accessory. This year will witness many brides preferring jewel-encrusted pieces. With the fashion trends likely to take shape in 2012, most brides may opt for embellishments such as pearls, crystals or diamonds to enhance the look. Nonetheless, it is advisable to keep the veil simple and not decorate it heavily. In addition, the decorations on the veil do not have to match the dress, but they should not clash.

Handbags

The handbag will also be a major accessory in weddings for 2012. While neutral tones dominated yesteryears, more colours will be preferred in 2012, with blue most probably taking the centre stage as the prominent colour.

Conclusion

The year 2012 will be the year in which to expect more emphasis on colour. Blue will be the most preferred, and many brides will line it up in their wedding accessories to complement their dresses. Nonetheless, even with the sophistication, vintage inspired accessories such as chandelier earrings, British hats such as those worn by Princess Kate among others will likely be a common fixture in weddings. When choosing the must have wedding accessories for 2012, it is imperative to understand that balance is always the key.

For those of us that are baby boomers, we understand the importance of our generation. There were some of us who were out to make the world a more peaceful place, by protesting a war, while others turned more attention toward the environment. It was a time when we felt we could make a difference, by getting involved and fighting for change. Here are some watch designs that evolved during this era:

The 1950’s

In this decade our military was the strongest in the world, and our economy was beginning to boom – along with the population. The military styles, like pilot wristwatches or camouflage pieces were popular. And the new economy encouraged more extravagant spending, and watches emerged with precious metals and gems.

The 1960’s

Some defining times involved John F. Kennedy and also the infamous Woodstock concert in the Catskills of New York. The times were all about peace and love, and hope that a young president could save our country from more war. The ever-popular vintage and retro watches are a salute to this era.

The 1970’s

The environmental movement and the music world exploded with everything from disco to Jimi Hendrix blaring from ceiling-high speakers. It was an era that could never be repeated and it left its mark on all future generations to come. The first electronic Pulsar LED watch surfaced and Rolex was instrumental in designing the first quartz watch technology. The solar watch emerged during this time as well, a testament to the growing interest in clean energy.

The Space Race

The race to the moon between the Soviets and the US was not only an adventure, but also imperative for peace. Apollo 11’s landing in 1969 marked the greatest accomplishment our country ever made. NASA created a new frontier of technology, which became a part of our everyday lives. Omega was unaware that NASA had tested their chronograph watches until their Omega Speedmaster Professional was adopted as the official wristwatch for all manned space missions.

As we know, there are many important events and struggles that shaped this generation. The importance of the baby boomer’s contribution of imagination and adventure definitely had an impact on the way the world tells time.

Author’ Bios

Tanya Peterson resides in NYC and is a content contributor for watchrepairny.com, a Manhattan provider of fine watch repair services since 1978. Tanya’s grandfather was in the antique watch business and it’s been a fascination with her since childhood.

Perhaps the most popular option for men looking to invest some money in a special piece is The Watch. A high quality watch can last through several generations, so picking a high quality and established brand is very important. Go for a long lasting material such as leather for your strap, and choose a metal such as Gold or Silver for the finishing’s. Many high end watch makers will also offers engravings or personalisation such as diamond embedding – so you really can completely tailor it to your individual style. Great for the man who likes to keep things simple and understated – but also a great option if you like flashy jewellery because of the amount of variety available.

If you’re the kind of guy who only really makes the effort with jewellery or accessories on special occasions, then the best option for you is probably something like Cufflinks. Cufflinks add the finishing touch to a good suit and a good pair of cufflinks can also be a great conversation starter (who’d have thought?) Go for timeless and classic Silver or Platinum as the colour of these metals is a nice neutral tone which will go with whatever colour tie or shirt you’ve chosen. Similarly, with cufflinks – consider paying that bit extra or engraving or diamond embedding.

For the business man, an often overlook jewellery option is the Tie Clip. The tie clip is simple and understated and yet (much like cufflinks) adds the finished touch to a suit. It’s an understated and yet very classic look to sport one of these – think Mad Men 1950s style.

The Ring is probably the most common piece of jewellery for men. The ring is a subtle piece of jewellery and something men often choose to wear once married. There’s nothing stopping you from purchasing a ring before then though – there are lots of great ring options for men, and there are so many styles available that you’re guaranteed to find something to your taste. You’re not limited to wearing the ring on your finger either, for something a little different try opting for a thumb ring or even a ring worn on a chain around your neck.

Finally – for the guy who likes a bit of bling, your options are endless. Take a trip to a jeweller and ask them what kinds of fine jewellery they can offer men. They’ll most likely present you with an array of diamond earrings, bracelets, chains and pendants – all of which are completely acceptable now for men to wear and experiment with. Earrings are a great choice for men who don’t want anything to large but still want to make a statement, and bracelets and chains offer that bit of bling for the guy who doesn’t have his ears pierced, so you’re covered from all angles!

Author’s Bio

Ellie-Rose Williams writes for Gold Traders who specialise in buying scrap gold and unwanted jewellery. If you’re interested in cashing in your old jewellery, you might be interested in their cash for gold guide and advice.

Brazilian waxing is most of the type associated with discomfort or pain and embarrassing situations. It is almost like a taboo topic that no one feels comfortable talking about or doing any research on. That is why Brazilian wax first timers have a really bad experience and usually don’t come back for a second one. The truth is that the first one it’s always the worst, but there a few things you can do in order to make it a better experience.

The first and most important thing is to talk to your friends that had one before. Try to get as many details as you can. You could also talk to the spa personnel about it or even watch a video review so that you will know what to expect.

If you have sensitive skin or if your pain threshold is lower than average you can take a pain killer 30 minutes or one hour before your appointment. I usually recommend Ibuprofen, but you can take whatever pain killer you want.

Another very important thing is the length of the pubic hair. In order for the Brazilian waxing procedure to be efficient the hair should have a specific length. By the book this length is around a quarter of an inch. You can obtain it by shaving and waiting for three weeks or by trimming your hair, although the first option is better as all hairs will have the exact same length.

As I already mentioned a Brazilian wax will cause some discomfort and your skin might be a bit more sensitive right after it’s done. In order to reduce the discomfort I recommend wearing a comfy panty, something made of cotton and not that tight.

Since we are one the skin sensitiveness topic, you should know that coffee increases it so don’t drink any before your appointment. Also, try to plan your appointment so that you will get the Brazilian in the first week after your period, when the skin is not that sensitive.

Last but not least, do not apply any lotions, creams or any kind of products to your skin before the waxing. These products might interact with the procedure, may prevent the wax from sticking to the hair or may affect your skin.

These are the most important things I can think, make sure to follow them and you should be fine. I know the first Brazilian wax is the most unpleasant, but the more you do it the better it gets. Your hair will grow back finer and thinner, your body will get used to it and over time you will hardly feel it.

Author bio:

Claire is the owner and editor of BrazilianWaxHQ.com – a website offering information and advices on Brazilian wax to women and men, customers or salon owners.

For 2012, the hottest styles include rings with halo settings, coloured stones, vintage styles, intricate settings and “green” rings that are made of recycled materials, which are more environmentally friendly than other rings.

Halo Settings

The halo style marries a vintage look with a design that makes the center diamond appear larger, which most every woman will agree is a plus. The halo is a ring of stones wrapped around the center stone, which symbolizes an unbreakable vow between a couple. To keep the halo ring classic and timeless, diamonds should be used as the halo and the center stone. However, the trendiest halo look for 2012 is created by using diamonds for the halo and a sapphire or other coloured stone in the center – think Kate Middleton’s engagement ring from Prince William.

Coloured Gemstones

The Duke of Cambridge made the coloured stone one of the biggest trends for 2012 by proposing to the Duchess with the late Princess Diana’s sapphire and diamond halo engagement ring. The most expensive and elegant coloured diamonds are pink, blue, yellow and brown, but that needn’t turn anyone off the idea of a coloured stone. Wallet friendly variations are available by purchasing rings made with gemstones rather than diamonds; sapphires, rubies and emeralds are more popular than ever. Vintage Styles Everything that is fashionable and trendy goes out of style only to come back later as a better reinvention of its former self; and the same is true for today’s vintage inspired engagement rings. Halo rings provide a slight vintage feel, but the trend for 2012 is far more vintage inspired, with rings created with floral bands and Victorian decor. Small, pave diamonds are also used to create a look that increases the bling factor on rings with smaller center stones, which is a classically vintage trend.

Intricate Settings

Everyone knows that the diamond or gemstone is the center of attention on any engagement ring, but some are taking this a step further and creating personalized rings with intricate settings for beautiful stones. In 2012, expect to see an array of engagement rings with braided bands, twisted bands and bypass rings. Bypass rings, also known as tension set rings, are bands that appear to be unconnected save for the center stone which is held in place from two separate sides. These rings are becoming increasingly popular with women everywhere, and are rings that men will see more and more in jewelry stores this coming year.

Green Rings

Some women are only happy with the biggest and best diamond or gemstone engagement ring in the room; others want something a little more meaningful. Fortunately, in 2012 there is something for everyone because one of the most popular trends of the year is the “Green” ring. No, it is not a ring made of emeralds or other green gemstones; it is a ring made of recycled gold or other recycled material. For the woman concerned with the environmentally responsible aspect of her ring, men can purchase diamonds and gemstones that are certified as conflict-free stones, which means they are guaranteed not to come from stones that are not used to fund war or drug lords.

Popular and Classic

Despite what the trends are saying for 2012, the most popular type of engagement ring – also the most classic, elegant and timeless – is the diamond solitaire. The solitaire is exactly what it sounds like, a single diamond in a setting as simple or elaborate as a bride wants. This ring style is popular because of its timeless quality – diamonds never go out of style, and the solitaire engagement ring is something that will always remain sophisticated and elegant.

Another style that is currently very popular is the Pave setting. Pave diamonds are small diamonds inside the band of a ring that complement the solitaire in the center of the ring. In addition to adding a little extra bling, pave diamonds create the illusion that the center stone is larger and more sparkly than it actually is, which is something many women are happy with. Pave diamonds are small and add carat weight to a ring, but without the overwhelming look of several larger diamonds on one band. The use of pave diamonds adds a hint of elegance and a vintage feel to an otherwise plain solitaire engagement ring. Trends come and go but love lasts a lifetime. A bride will wear her engagement ring forever and potentially pass it down from generation to generation for her daughters to wear. The trends and styles of 2012 incorporate classic looks that should remain elegant and sophisticated for years to come.

Author’s Bio

Doug Neubauer blogs at “Everything Princess Cut“, specializing in Princess Cut Engagement Rings, Princess Cut Diamonds, Wedding Rings and other fine jewelry.