There’s a fine line between sexy lingerie and slutty bedroom attire, but how do you know where to draw the line? What’s the difference between something that will turn your man on and something that will turn him off?

When it comes to dressing for success in the bedroom, all you have to remember is the 5 C’s:

Confidence

In a study done by GQ Magazine in 2011, men revealed that above weight, hair, make-up and body shape, the thing they found sexiest about a woman is confidence. Pictures of two women were compared in which the more physically attractive of the two was rated higher, but when the men participating in the study met the women, 9 out of every 10 men changed answers to give the woman with the lower rating a higher score. Why? The more attractive woman was instructed to be reserved and inverted while meeting the participants, while the other woman was instructed to be flirtatious and confident. When you’re choosing your lingerie, the first thing you should look for is something that makes you feel confident. If you’re insecure about your stomach, this could mean a baby-doll that has high sex appeal, but covers your problem area. If you’re proud of your breasts, wear something that accentuates that feature. Something that makes you confident is something that will make you sexy!

Crotchless

In that same study, less than 5% of men said they think crotchless panties, stockings, and other outfits are sexy. If you find something in the store that’s crotchless, put it down and keep shopping.

Complimentary

We can all watch the Victoria’s Secret runway show and get great ideas from the women on stage, but what are the chances that little number is going to look the same on us as it does on Heidi? Find something that compliments your skin tone, your body shape, and your height in a classy way.

Curves

Women look at their curves and often think ‘fat’. Men look at a woman’s curves and think ‘fabulous’! It’s been proven since the dawn of time that men are attracted to curvier women, so embrace yours! Instead of trying to get into a bustier that’s so tight it looks like it should be dancing around a pole just so your love handles are smoothed down, wear something that subtly forms to your body and shows off your curves!

Comfort

We all know there are outfits that would make men drool no matter who wears then, but how much are you going to enjoy being in that latex nurse outfit for an entire night? When you’re shopping for something to wear in the bedroom, always try it on first. Can you wear it and feel sexy, or are you going to feel silly? Can you comfortably move in it, or is the underwire already uncomfortable? You’re not just going to be wearing that number alone in a dressing room; you’re going to be fully exposed in it to someone else. Make sure you’re going to be comfortable, both mentally and physically.

When you’re finding something to wear in the bedroom, keep the 5 C’s in mind and you’ll end up with results to lust for.

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By Jesse Woods from SexSearch.com

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